Do you tell your significant other everything about your worries?

I am really such a worry wart, so as best as I can, I try to downplay my worries + choose the ones to tell Jared’s dad + keep most of them to myself. I believe that sharing your woes make the load a lot lighter by dividing your grief, but sometimes he tends to be much worse of a worrier than me + tends to be such a negatron that I find it best to  keep it to myself or share my worries with my sister (who I know can get quite annoyed at times, but she loves her nephew to bits so I’m sure she doesn’t mind!) instead. We do discuss stuffs like Jared’s vaccines or consultation schedules with his pedia, or about my worries on baby’s habit to refuse eating solids, or whenever Jared reaches a milestone or learned something new or did something funny or unusual. I try my best to keep him up-to-date with what’s going on in Jared’s little corner, the best I can.  But there are just so many things better left unsaid, too, for everyone’s benefits…

Love + Light,

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