Pregnancy: At What Point Do You Start Making Trips To The Baby Shop?

You are an excited parent to be, but nine months is a long time to wait. At what point do you give in and start making trips to the baby shop? Too soon and you could run out of money and space before the baby has even arrived. Too late and you could cause unnecessary panic!

Lets think about the baby items that you actually need to buy before the baby arrives:

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Nursery furniture and decorations

Depending on the amount of free time you have you might need to start shopping for this quite early on. The nursery might need completely redecorating, so it is worth bearing that in mind and being realistic about how long it is going to take you to get it all ready. The last think you want is to be painting and decorating when the little one has arrived! Nursery decorations should probably come first, then furniture when the room is ready. You probably want to start on this about five or six months before baby is due.

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Car seat and pram

You won’t be allowed to leave the hospital without a proper car seat, so this is something that definitely needs to be bought first. These are quite technical items that require a bit of research. Does the seat fit in your car? Do you want a pram that turns into a pushchair or a demi grow that you can convert into a double or twin mode? These are all things that need to be thought about, so I would suggest looking at these at least three months before the baby is born so that you have time to get it right rather than rushing and buying the wrong one!

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Memorable Birthday Gifts For Mums

There isn’t a better time to show your mum how much you appreciate her than on her birthday. It’s important to buy a gift that is going to make your mum feel great about herself. So this means no kitchen utensils, unless cooking is her one true passion! The best birthday presents are those that have been carefully thought out with the potential of creating wonderful memories.

This list of 5 memorable birthday gifts will hopefully inspire you to purchase your mum the perfect present.

Pamper your mum!

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You cannot go wrong with giving mum the opportunity to pamper herself. Luxurious skin care and body gifts are a great way to tell your mother to take a time out and spend some time relaxing; it is her birthday after all. You could go the extra mile and purchase a spa day gift voucher at your mums’ favorite spa hotel, this can be great for bonding and you get to go along too, bonus! Manicures, pedicures, a nice glass of wine and maybe a dip in the pool – the perfect day getaway!

A bunch of flowers

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All mums love flowers! Flowers bring a bit of life into the home and they’re a great statement of appreciation. Choose your mum’s favorite flowers and have them displayed in an extravagant bouquet, she will immediately recognize her favorites and know you have put a lot of thought into it.

 A luxury watch

A slightly more expensive gift, a luxury watch may mark the perfect gift for a milestone birthday. A watch could make the perfect joint present if you have other siblings, it will remind your mum of you at all times! Watches of Switzerland tend to be the most luxurious and well-made watches out there, you can find all sorts of designs, from dainty pieces to diamond encrusted wrist wear.

Personalized gifts

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It’s amazing the types of gifts you can find these days, you can turn the most simple gift such as a candle and put your own personal spin on it. Mark your mother’s birthday as a special occasion by personalizing a gift. There are plenty of creative websites online these days that offer customization. Some quirky ideas include pillow cases, candles, or a photo frame that can be engraved. Putting your own spin on a gift such as these will always remind your dearest mum of you!

A framed photograph

There’s nothing that spells out a loving bond in a relationship than a personal photo of you and your mum. You might have your other siblings or members of the family in there too! Pick out a frame that you know your mum will just love, depending on whether she likes tradition or modern day designs. You could even arrange a professional family photo shoot, these are often great fun (though a little cheesy!) but really they create a great bond amongst the family and of course the outcome is a memory your mum can keep forever.

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A Financial Checklist for Expectant Mums

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Expecting a baby can be a mixed bag of emotions for many parents, especially with a few extra hormones in the mix. Although you are probably looking forward to seeing your little bundle of joy, extra financial worries can often creep into your pregnancy. By creating a checklist during this time, hopefully you can manage this extra burden and focus on the more positive things in life. Here is a little checklist with some pre-baby planning ideas to help get you started.

Free dental care

Several links have been made between poor dental health and our overall health. Several studies have found prominent links to gum disease and low birth weights as well as premature births. As an expectant mum, you are more prone to gum disease due to hormone changes. If you notice sore or bleeding gums, head to the dentist straight away. Due to these risks, your GP will offer you a card which will entitle you to free dental care which you can use during your pregnancy and up to one year after the birth of your baby.

Register your baby

In England and Wales, the law requires you to register the birth of your baby within 42 days. If this deadline is not met, you will be fined £200, which will feel like a huge amount with an extra mouth to feed. You can register either at a registry office or in the hospital before you leave. There is no fee and the process will only take around 30 minutes.

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Overspending

It is common for first time parents to overspend on basically everything. If you talk to parents with more than one child, they will often say that they spent too much on things for their first born. Although you want this time to be special and lovely, your main focus should be on practical must-haves and having enough money to feed and house your child. Your baby will probably spend more time playing with a cardboard box rather than an expensive toy. Join some online forums or a parenting group in your area for helpful advice and tips.

Childcare

Many mothers feel that they need to take on the role of a stay-at-home mum because of costly childcare fees. In a bid to get more mums back into work, the government are offering childcare tax credit. The HMRC sets out a rough guide in their child tax credit leaflet. It states that you ‘may get an award of tax credits’ if you have a household income up to £26,000 with one child or a total income of £32,000 with two children. Look at the HMRC website of the Citizen’s Advice Bureau for more information.

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Discount baby shopping

Annual baby bills can really take a chunk out of earnings. Sign up to some baby clubs to arm yourself with some hidden discounts on food, toys and other baby items next time you hit the shops. Asda, Sainsbury’s, Tesco and Boots all have their own baby clubs which offer discount vouchers on all your everyday items as well as free samples for you to try at home. Look out for some Asda baby discount events throughout the year either in store or online.

Some extra cash

It can be easy to get yourself into a spin when you are pregnant. With so many things to sort out, you may miss out on a HMRC tax refund and other payouts that you are entitled to. Why not head to https://www.riftuk.com/ to find out if you are eligible for some extra cash this year?

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