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Ever since I was a little girl and until now that I am a mum, I always consider having sisters as one of my biggest blessings in life. Not only do I automatically have someone to run to or rely on when I need help with something, I also consider it a privilege to have someone you can totally trust and tell your deepest, darkest secrets {not that I have too many! Haha}. Having someone who understands your craziness and your quirks is also a big plus!
Here are 10 Reasons Why I Thought Having A Sister Is Pure Awesomeness!
- They are your Best-est Friend ~ Not just by default, but also by choice, having a sister is like automatically having a best friend. And because you live in the same house, you can have endless hours of fun and endless hours of chit-chats!
- They are your human journal ~ Since they cannot quit {even if they are tempted to sometimes}, sisters are your human journals whenever you need to vent or think out loud, especially when you are experiencing something absolutely amazing or something downright heartbreaking. It is a plus if you sleep in the same room, as it means you can do your human journalling even in the wee hours of the morning, as long as they are awake, that is!
- They keep you abreast with what is happening in the world ~ Having a sister is the best, especially if you are too busy with your life to keep up with what is going on in the world. Our sisters can be a reliable source of what’s the latest in social media, may that be the juiciest showbiz news, the latest fashion, trends, or the newest book released by your favorite author. You are also privy to their latest online discoveries, like a cool book lover’s cafe or this cool online career hub, for example.
- Trust them to be your child’s alternate mother ~ Titas love their nieces and nephews to a fault, that sometimes you’d think they love your child more than you do. They are their fiercest and staunchest supporters that having a sister also meant having a default groupie for your budding athlete or your budding rockstar. Not to mention, they’d also jump at any chance to baby sit their beloved nephew giving mum quality time alone or with dad.
- Free Psychiatrist ~ Since psychiatric consultation do not come cheap, it is such a big advantage to have a sister and have a free psychiatrist around. They can readily dish out advices, unsolicited or otherwise, when they are up to it, and depending on your needs, they also do psychology, fortune telling, and face reading on the side.
- A Coffee or Movie Buddy on the ready ~ No matter how busy life can be for sisters, it will only take a phone call or a text away to invite them to go out with you for a cup of coffee or to catch your favorite film on the cinema, and for women, especially for the single ones, this is really quite an advantage.
- They remind you so much of your parents ~ And for someone who’ve lost her parents many years ago, having someone alive to remind her of how her parents were when they were around is such a great source of joy and comfort. I catch a glimpse of my Papa and Mama from my sisters time and again, and it is a beautiful way to keep their memories alive in us.
- A Shopping Buddy ~ If you love shopping {now who doesn’t, right?}, it is great to know that when you have a sister, you get a shopping buddy by default. It does not matter whether you dig going to the physical store and browsing through the items on display manually, or shopping online, trust your sister to accompany you whenever you are in the mood for serious retail therapy. Whether you are in the mood to shop for new clothes, new household items, books or washi tapes, perhaps, know that dear sissy will be there to help you with your purchases.
- A fashion consultant ~ One of the perks of having a sister is having your personal fashion consultant and if you have a fashion savvy sister, then always being stylish and abreast with the current fad will never be a problem for you. You can rely on them to give you their very honest opinion about which article of clothing in your wardrobe actually works for you.
- A confidante ~ A sister knows you inside out and they know where you’ve been and what you’ve gone through in life, and since time immemorial, you know that they have always been there. They are the best confidante and you can trust them to keep your secrets for you and not spill it out on someone else when you are not around. It is also a comfort to know that you can tell them about anything under the sun without the perils of being judged or prejudiced.
Shouts out to all the sisters out there and cheers to all the mums who have them. Life indeed is so much better with them around.
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Lots of points will be developed when you have a sister, and brother maybe? Well, your post says some benefits for this matter. I think, more points are to be included with this post, when different personality, speaks-up their minds honestly.
So sweet! I have not been lucky or blessed to have had a sister of my own, and with cousins, it’s just not always the same…
Sometimes cousins can also be like our sister from another mother, right? 🙂
Having a sister is really awesome. I have two younger sister but I’m closed to our second and also she’s my fashion buddy. We love twinning esp. in our outfit. Hahaha We protect each other, also we bully each other. I really love my sisters.
Just one of the many things to do with your sisters! <3
Interesting point of view. I grew up having a sister but we are not that close. I think we were very different and because we were raised by different grandparents, this bond was not really formed.
But it is never too late to forge a stronger and more beautiful bond with her, she is your sister, after all. No matter how much time you spent apart, you will always have this beautiful connection.
It was my dream to have a blood-related sister. I totally agree with what you mentioned here but I can’t relate. I am the only princess in the family with 2 brothers. I am sure it will be different if I have my sister but luckily, I still have my sisters from another mother a.k.a cousins and girl besties. You are so fortunate to have one!
I am, indeed! And you are also fortunate to have cousins and brothers! 🙂
A sister is like your first best friend and will forever be one even in adulthood.
So true! I am a living example of that.
I’m the only girl among two boys, and this makes me envy people who have sisters. Especially on the instant movie buddy!
But am sure having brothers is just as fun! ^_^
So much things and lessons i’ve learned from my sisters – yep, they’re my number one fan/supporter/enemies/ bestfriends 🙂
Sisters really are!
I wish my sister and I grew up together in one house but I’m still glad that we are close 🙂
That is good to know. You still have all the time in the world to catch up with each other and make wonderful sister memories! ^_^
Sadly, i don’t have a sister. Didn’t know the feeling of having a sister in a family. ?
That is sad. But I am sure you have a cousin who’s almost like a sister to you 🙂
And I may add, if you’re the Ate, having a sister prepares you for motherhood pretty early. 🙂 Thank you for such sweet reminders for having a sister.
Yes, that, too! But I did not experience that much since I am just several years older than my siblings. But it does open you up to concepts like responsibility and accountability early on in life. You’re welcome! ^_^
Haha. Not my sister but this is totally my younger cousin 😀
We’re all three girls in the family and I’m the youngest and I just felt good having sisters. They’re my bestfriend, my confidante, my everything. We shared makeup, room, even intimates,. Everything! Though I want to have an older brother before but I won’t replace my sisters with anything. I just love having them around.
I also wanted to have an older brother before since I was the eldest child, but yes, you wouldn’t trade having a sister for anything else! 🙂
Haaay, these are all true. I really wish I had one. I feel those who have a sister are quite lucky.
I feel the same. But I am sure you also have a dear friend who’s almost like a sister to you! 🙂
I wish I had a sister. But I found these things wit my best friends. We are like sisters! ?
Yes, when you do not have a sister, the universe will send you one in some ways! 🙂
I love bonding with my sister. We can do things without worrying what others would say. We can be crazy together and we have the same wave as well
Indeed! Just but one of the many reasons why having a sister is too awesome!
I super agree, it’s so great having a sister. I miss mine already! She’s been in NYC for a year now for school. Can’t wait til I see her again.
I am sure it will be such a wonderful experience to see her again after being away for a long time.
I have two sisters but I cannot really share my thoughts to them because they are way too young, 10+ years of gap. ? But they are my movie buddies, indeed ?
Having very young sisters can be quite a disadvantage, but they won’t be young for long and soon enough you will fully enjoy the perks of having them in your life! 🙂
Having sister/ brother could also mean having differences. There were times that you wouldn’t agree with each other, but as you have mentioned above, there are lots of things that we should be thankful if we have a sister or a brother.
It is true, disagreements and disputes are also part of the territory. Still, the advantages of having a sister far outweighs the disadvantages.
For me, having a sister is a crown jewel. Thats why, some monica iha so envious of people who has sisters and brothers. Its difficult to be alone in this world. No man is an Island. Good job in defining the sweet and simple characteristic of your sister. It seems your personality is such a kind hearted soul. I know, how it feels to have a sister. Its God’s Gift.
Thank you for the kind words. Indeed, a sister is God’s gift and we are fortunate to enjoy this gift everyday! 🙂
I have two sisters! We don’t see each other that often but whenever magkikita-kita, happy naman kami. Thank you for sharing this list! 🙂
It is always a joy to have a sister, right? 🙂
I can only wish I have one. I’m an only child. And as a kid I was happy and content to being alone. But, when I grew up, I realized that it’s best to have a sister or a brother at least. You are so lucky to have yours. ?
I am from a brood of five so I can only imagine how lonely it would seem to be an only child. This is the reason why I am seriously considering to have another baby so my little man can experience the joy of having a sibling!
I don’t have a sister, but what I liked about the reasons you said is having a free psychiatrist and a fashion consultant. We can really be more sane when we vent our problems to someone and knowing that we can trust the person to keep our inner thoughts is a big plus too. It’s also helpful to have someone to consult outfits with. Better yet share clothes with so you’ll have a bigger wardrobe selection 🙂
I cannot agree with you more! 😀
I hope my sister and I doesn’t have a 12-yr age gap so we can enjoy the things you listed. But maybe when she gets into her right age, we’ll get to understand each other even better.
The huge age gap can be quite a bummer, but you’ll meet half-way at some point, am sure, and you will get to enjoy all the perks of having a sister! ^_^
I agree with all your points here, how I wish I can do shopping or coffee etc to my sister. Coz she’s still a baby. On the other hand I don’t want her to grow old fast yet. I still love kissing and playing her 🙂
Yes, better enjoy the moment while she’s still young. You will have all the time to do all those grown-up stuff soon! ^_^
I know..couldn’t agree more with your points!! I’ve a little sister and l love her so much; mostly when we go shopping together!!! 🙂
Shopping is indeed more fun when you do it with your sister! ^_^
Too bad, I don’t have a sister. You’re blessed to have one. 🙂
Twice as blessed for having two! ^_^
We grew up in a big family of 10 and really, I experienced much about my sisters and brothers. In the long run, it’s very hard to contemplate alone when things were not in order. They’re always there to defend from enemies all the time. Loved to have more sisters and brothers at the same time.
Wow, it must’ve been an awesome experience to have that many siblings! ^_^
So beautiful post.. To have a sister is really cool. Sad, but I have only brother.. ?
Thank you. It is also cool to have a brother 🙂
I don’t have one, but I think your list makes me want to have one. =)
If you do not have one, am sure you have a dear friend who is almost like a sister. Otherwise, I hope you can have a sister soon, if it were possible.
I can super relate! I have 3 sisters and they are all
my best friends!
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Your post makes me miss my sisters back home. I have 5 and even though some are pasaway, I wouldn’t trade the feeling of having them.
Wow, it must’ve been so much fun growing up with 5 sisters. I sure hope you could have a grand reunion with your sissies very soon! ^_^
Aw this is really sweet! I have a younger sister (we have a 12-year gap) but we get along well. That doesn’t mean we don’t fight half the time though lol!
Fighting is also part of the fun of having a sister! 😛
Having a sister is awesome especially if she is a friend and is not into any sort of sibling competition.
That is also right, mummy, as sometimes, sisters clash and are into sibling rivalry.
I have 2 sisters and a brother and all I can say is I can’t ask for more. They’re those I can fool around anytime. Yes, also a fashion consultant, lol!
Indeed! Yes, it is also such a big blessing to have a brother or two! 🙂
I do have a sister and we have the same reasons why having a sister is the best! Eventhough we had some quarrels, we believe that at the end of the day we will always be sisters and partners in crime 🙂
Indeed! 🙂
Sisters can be one’s very best friend. I only have one but we’re not that close. She’s been living in the US for around 10 years now so I don’t see her a lot. But she’s actually here now for a really short visit. We were able to have lunch yesterday so that was great. 🙂
It is always lovely to see your sister again especially after you’ve been apart for too long. I hope you and your sister can make precious memories while she’s here! 🙂
I have only 1 sister and yes she is my sister and my best friend and she’s always there for me and I always there also for her. No matter what your sister is always your sister 🙂
I have 1 real younger sister and three elder half sisters. Growing up with my younger sister was no fun at all. She is spoiled and I got nothing. I missed them all so much since I live half way around the world far from them. Good thing Facebook is here to keep us updated.
You must miss your sisters a lot. I sure hope you can be with them very soon.
I have a sister and two brothers. And my sister and I are total opposites, too. LOL! We argued a lot but when it matters, we’ve got each other’s backs. She became my little Z’s momma during the week when I was still commuting to and from Manila-Baguio during weekends. Regardless of our differences, I love my sister. 🙂
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It’s nice to know you’ve a very good relationship with your sister. I also have but during the later parts of growing up. We use to squabble like crazy, must have driven our parents nuts hahaha.
I guess it is all part of the territory to have those squabbles with our sisters, but it is wonderful to know that whatever happens, they will always have our backs! 🙂
I agree with a sister being your child’s alternate mom. My younger sister spoils my son with lovely gifts on his birthday, on Christmas Day, and even when there’s no occasion to celebrate.
Yup, the blessings of having a sister is also something that our children absolutely enjoy! ^_^
Having a sister and a friend in one is a God’s blessing. You are blessed. Lucky you.
It is, mum! ^_^
My sister is my best friend and I’m glad I have one. We share problems, secrets and even makeup tips! She’s also there to babysit when I’m busy hababa
That’s one of my fave perks of having a sister, free babysitter! 😀
I love my sisters! I have 4 of them! Although they’re much much older than me (the one before me is 18 years older), hindi ko na-experience yung they gave me hand-me downs. But they showered me with gifts kasi they were already working na by the time I was in grade school, high school and college. The downside was, they lived in the US, so I only see them once a year noon. Now, I only see them when they visit here. And when they do, I really drop everything and spend all their days here with them.
Wow, it must’ve been awesome to grow up as a baby of 4 sisters! ^_^
I only have my big brother so I can’t really relate hahah. But I have girlfriends older than me that I treat more like a sister.
Yes, sometimes, sometimes sisters come from different mothers! 🙂
I have a sister who is 10 years older than me and she’s everything to me. She’s my bestest buddy, my almost “nanay”, and my coolest friend. She’s also the best tita to twinkle and Ykaie.
I also love my sisters for being the best titas for my little man! <3
I agree! My sister and I were roommates for over 20 years and those years were the best. We could talk about anything and everything.
That’s one of the things I enjoy the most in having a sister! ^_^
I’m so envious. I’m an only child and I’ve always wanted a sister to talk to or just bond with.
I always thought being an only child is rather lonely, but am sure you have a dear friend who is almost like a sister to you.
I couldn’t agree more! Aside from those, she’s always your team in all means. So for those sisters out there, my shout out goes to you!!! Thanks for being there whenever your sibs need you in times. 🙂
Indeed, having a sister is having someone on your team on the ready! 😀
Having a sister is the greatest blessing! I don’t think our childhood would have been how it is without our siblings !