How To Get Your Teen Ready For School On the Cheap

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Raising teenagers can be quite expensive depending on their tastes and getting them ready for school can be a nightmare. That doesn’t mean that getting them ready has to be expensive. There are plenty of ways to save money on the things that your teen needs for school. Even those in college can need help trying to save money so planning ahead can help immensely.

Tax free week usually occurs right before a majority of schools are back in session. This might only be 7 percent of the price but it is money that is automatically saved. With costs of school supplies costing in the hundreds this can save you a solid amount of money. If you live in a state near one that doesn’t have a sales tax like Delaware, making a shopping trip can be worth the drive.

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Going online to find school supplies as well as clothes is easier than ever. It is also easier than ever to find deal online or even coupons. There are coupons for sites like on Groupon that are updated on a daily basis. It is important to check coupon websites and websites for deals daily. Most websites will have a calendar of their sales so you will know when purchasing school supplies or clothes will be the cheapest.

Doing shopping months is advance can help you save hundreds of dollars per trip. There are outlet stores that sell brand names for cheap but the clothing is not seasonal. In the summer and spring they have winter clothes and vice versa. Checking out these outlets for additional sales can be a great way to save money without sacrificing clothing quality. Black Friday is a great day to do as much shopping as possible as the prices are reduced dramatically.

As you can see the days of spending large amounts of money to get your teen ready for school are over. With all of the options available today you should make it a goal to spend the least amount of money possible without your teen noticing. Don’t pay full price to anything as there is always a better deal.

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Advocates of Positive Discipline: “Love Does Not Hurt!”

I have always believed in disciplining children the positive way and have always refrain from hitting or hurting the little man. It sure is a gargantuan task to discipline our offspring and see to it that they grow up to be good individuals who can contribute to the betterment of the society, but it is a very important task and we ought to try as much as we can to discipline them without inflicting emotional or physical harm.

I was invited to the Go Positive! Celebrity Advocate media launch not too long ago and I would’ve loved to attend if only I could. But even when I was not there personally to witness the launch of this advocacy, here is a short brief about it to educate us all about this very worthy cause:

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Celebrities Support Discipline Without Harm

Manila, Philippines — Children’s rights organizations and advocates of positive discipline gathered today, May 21, 2015 at the Quezon City Sports Club to promote Positive Discipline as good parenting. The “Go Positive! Celebrity Advocate Media Launch” unveiled the newest addition to the growing ranks of positive discipline advocates. Celebrities Cherry Pie Picache, Karylle, ReemaChanco and Lotlot de Leon gave their statements of support and urged the public to “Go Positive!”

Organized by the PETA ARTS (Advocate Right to Safety) Zone Project in partnership with Plan International, Child Rights Network (CRN) and Dakila, supported by terre des homes-Germany, German Federal Ministry for Economic Cooperation and Development (BMZ), and the European Union (EU), the media launch featured the advocacy video, “Go Positive! The Positive Discipline Approach to Parenting.” Advocates from various sectors including public school educators, faith-based groups and youth shared testimonials on how going positive rears children who are able to grow towards reaching their full potentials and develop holistically as human beings.

Marichu Belarmino, Director of PETA ARTS Zone Project, said, “For the Filipino parents, children are considered blessings given by the Creator and therefore, they are showered with much care and love acting as their guardians. For Filipino children, his or her parents are most often placed on a pedestal and the family plays a significant role in his/her growing-up years.Across decades and through the years, disciplining children has been equated with placing punishment on them and most importantly, regarded as a private matter.As the global world and the Filipino culture and society evolve, we are now confronted with the question:  Is punishment the way to discipline a child?  Are we indeed creating a nurturing, loving and caring place for our children once we inflict harm and pain on them?”

The Child Rights Network has been lobbying for the passage of a law that will institutionalize positive and non-violent methods of disciplining children. The House of Representatives already passed HB 4907 or the Positive and Nonviolent Discipline of Children Act which explicitly prohibits corporal punishment, and provides a comprehensive program to promote positive and nonviolent discipline in all settings, especially at home. The Senate versions of the bills on positive discipline authored separately by Senators Cynthia Villar (Senate Bill 2182), Jinggoy Estrada (SBN 363) and Nancy Binay (SBN 227) are still pending.

According to Plan International’s Country Program Advisor for Child-Friendly Governance, Ernesto Almocera Jr., “In our society, physical and verbal punishment are treated as acceptable forms of discipline. It is unfortunate that our laws tolerate physical punishment in the name of disciplining children. Parents and other adults should recognize that, even for the sake of discipline, causing pain or discomfort is a violation of children’s rights. We are hoping to protect the rights of Filipino children against these forms of punishment by encouraging all those with parental authority to start disciplining children without harm”.

Positive discipline is an approach to guiding children’s behavior without using any form of violence like spanking, pinching, humiliation, and verbal abuse. It is about instilling values of non-violence, empathy, self-respect, human rights and respect for others. Advocates champion positive discipline as a disciplinary method that involves open communication with a child, making sure that the parent-child relationship is rooted on mutual love and respect. It ensures that the child understands the consequences of his actions and allows him to make his own decisions, making discipline a matter of deep understanding and going beyond blind obedience.

Celebrity mom Lotlot de Leon shared her experiences as a mother, “For me, the best way to discipline our children is to explain to them what their mistakes are. We don’t need to hurt them for them to understand their mistakes. We should sit down with them, talk to them and make them understand the context and perspective where we are coming from as parents and as adults. In the future, when our children become parents, they will do the same kind of parenting we did to them to our grandchildren.”

Award winning actress Cherry Pie Picache shared that, “it is important that a child grows up in a nurturing environment because this will affect his or her beliefs, values and customs when he or she becomes an adult. The biggest challenge in inspiring and encouraging other parents to embrace positive discipline is to enable them to veer away with the beliefs, customs and values they grew up with, the kind of discipline that harm, embarrass and instill fear to children”.

PETA ARTS Zone Project, Plan International, Dakila and the Child Rights Network have been engaging in activities that encourage “duty-bearers” to go positive in disciplining children with out resorting to violent forms. In ending, Marichu Belarmino of PETA ARTS Zone said, “There are more than enough ways for affirmative child rearing practices and instilling discipline to children with out resorting to violence and at the same time upholding their rights and dignity as children. Loving our children means never hurting them.”

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Progress Pre-School GOLD’s #MultipleIntelligence Recognition Day

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I was privileged to be invited to Progress Pre-School Gold’s Multiple Intelligence Recognition Day held at the Carlos P. Romulo Auditorium at the RCBC Plaza recently. It was a great excuse to visit my old workplace and spend the afternoon celebrating and knowing more about Multiple Intelligence. It was also a lovely experience to witness the recognition of the Multiple Intelligence kids.




A sumptuous cocktail feast was prepared for all the guests prior to the event. And as we were ushered inside the auditorium before the Recognition Day started, we were each handed a gold-and-blue toga which we are suppose to wear especially for the occasion. Mums were giddy realizing it has been eons ago since we donned our College toga. The experience was both exciting and nostalgic.

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